Selasa, 13 Juli 2010

MY MOTHER MY HERO

MY MATHER MY HERO
Life story is usually the biggest inspiration for someone to go through life, sometimes life experiences make us stronger or vice versa, and the greatest source of motivation in life right is LOVE!. Love here means not only different types of relationship pair human being, but rather the universal love. Love of a mother or parent to child or vice versa .. This is the greatest power possessed that could be a source of motivation for everyone.
My mother was beautiful, she was not born of a rich and blue-blooded family, my mother is just an ordinary human being who bled Minang and born to a peasant family of small oblong hill called Taratak peak. My mother was not a spoiled child, a child who sulks requested bought dolls or other toys, the days and even a pair of new shoes too small never available, his child life long as a dream like that never ending, but thanks to the perseverance and spirit in order to live a meaningful life and better so he can be known to people since the year 1987 as an elementary school teacher who has a noble task and is often referred to as a hero without appreciation.              
          My small village tradition that still glorifies a teaching profession, because teachers reflects the success in life, apart from that teacher is someone who is smart, intelligent, highly knowledgeable and others. So that my mother's family social status is low once the community increased and even highly respected, this is reflected in the attitude and the way these people calling my mother's mother called the teacher, both young and old from my mother to call them.
My mother is one woman who was full of love and affection in abundance to his family, especially her children, or even bestow affection to his other relatives. Like A Mother in general she was very patient, forgiving, trying to understand to children, Mother who always bestow a genuine affection and unconditional, makes the comfort of home for his family, coaching his children, and always provide the best for the family, showed that the mother have archetype caregiver. A mother as a caregiver is always best to give everything for his family so he sometimes forgot himself and very caring towards his family. Mother daily to prepare all the needs of children and her husband, the mother usually manage all household affairs, women who cook everyday for the children and her husband, and mother is also typically a tidy home.
As a child who is born of a teacher, then the mother is very disciplined and educated me and my brothers, my mother said, “”because all our behavior is highlighted people, teachers and families are considered role models”. My house is located in an area frequented since arriving in the middle right corner the market so that corpulent people passing by to buy a requirement that they need daily.

          Besides me there were two more brothers and we all started man, Among the three of us, my third brother of the most recalcitrant. If, as the eldest many restrictions, such as “do not go play too much, do not be naughty and so forth ", and I kept it, but my brother made it all very interesting to try. However, usually my dad who is a farmer just smiled at my sister's behavior, the nature of my father who patiently, with a lot of spare time and not too busy, so the father could look after us at the time the mother went to work. maybe my brother the same obstinacy as the nature of a young father so the father can know and understand the habits of my brother and advised him in a way that wise.
Me and my brothers in school (SD) did not place my mom worked as a teacher, a decision was taken because apart from my school closer to home and dad can we monitor closely. Regulation in my home is each child will get the job, my duties include watering the plants and help the father in the fields. Our fathers in the fields planting fruit such as papayas, bananas and others.
Discipline is the father and mother instilled early. Every night after coming home from the " mangaji ka surau" mom always reminded to learn. Besides the mother guiding her son in all things, for example, the mother guiding her son when he was studying or working on tasks, mothers also guide their children when faced with a problem. Mom usually also accompany their children in various situations. A mother's love giving hugs and kisses love for his children. Sometimes the mother likes to act decisively or even angry when their children make mistakes. All actions that she did represent an effort to make his family comfortable, shaping their children into a healthy individual both physically and spiritually, and guiding children to become successful people. All the actions that mothers do is form a very sincere affection and a mother and her husband want to make your child feel loved and cared for. For a mother's marriage and family institutions and regulations in the home or family is an important instrument. The institution of marriage and family is a medium in which the mothers bestow her affection. In addition, the rules of the house rules that are set with her husband to manage or control their children. The regulation is the constraints that it provides for the good of his family especially his children. Rules are made so that children can directional and comfort can be formed.
A mother can and able to give time to 24 hours a day for their children, there is no word of the day or night, no words may be tired or not. Early in the morning at our house have been very busy, such as cooking, washing, sweeping, and getting ready for school, every morning my father drove the mother has a routine assignment to the school and the mother returned to pick up his lunch, while my brother and I because of the distance of our schools close to home hence, we do not need the shuttle. Mother also educate children to have to learn every day, except holidays. Learning is also not allowed to more than 11 hours of the night, because it is not effective, and the mother will wake up tomorrow morning the three of us to start a new schedule. Discipline is the mother and her affection, made it difficult to adjust in the early days of college, away from parents and used to study while waiting for the mother.
If you have an appointment with someone, my father and mother would keep her promise. This attitude was shown to his children so that their children be the right person appointment, the mandate to carry out tasks and others. Likewise when receiving report cards, usually only the father who had come because her mother could not come because of that noble task in mandated for him. And from this situation the mother gives the sense that life need mutual understanding and not selfish, so from childhood until now to understand the situation was not difficult for me because it has been planted since I was little.
When people ask me who the heroes in my life and why people are called heroes? At first very difficult to determine who the heroes in my life. After struggling to find a "true hero to me," I finally realized who my real hero. My heroes are people who have given me many things, who has taught me about everything, which has shown me how beautiful life, my hero has opened my eyes to the fact that life is not always beautiful and happy like a fairy tale, but life is more than that. My hero has been explained to me that life can be very cruel. Every man should strive to make all their dreams and become someone to be success. Maybe, because my hero live so close to me, I did not realize that these people have inspired me so. My hero is my mother.
What I wrote above is only a short story about my hero, my mother dear. I wrote a short story to explain my hero, so people who read my story has a bit more knowledge of himself. I know everyone who reads this story will have a big question in their mind, like why I chose him as my hero. Actually, my mother was not a popular hero, and maybe he is not a hero for everyone, but one thing I know for sure, my mother will always be a hero in my heart.

            Like I said earlier, my mother was always giving love and patience. Maybe it was because my oldest child in my family, so I'm very close to him. I always tell her everything, like what happened at school, about my friends, everything. I always tell you what I feel. He is the only person who really knows and understands me, so my mom is my hero.

When she saw my mother cry, my heart also cried, my heart stab, when you're crying describes in detail his life sadly small. However, Mother I'm proud of you. Even if people laugh at life at a time, even those born to exclude because of your status from an ordinary family, but now I commend the mother, I flatter your mother, me and the boys are another proof of your persistence. Sweat is your zikir, your ink not gold or silver. Science is hands, feet and your obstinacy. You're an angel indeed, my mother. Your blood is precious blood for me. Your title is a title in the eyes of God as a man who bravely.                                   .                                                                                                     .                                 

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